My husband likes to brag about beating video games since he was the age of, well, nearly a fetus. It is his favorite recreational activity... well, one of them. Some guys play golf, some guys play music, some guys camp, Spencer plays video games.
When we were dating we'd often hang out either playing video games together or I would watch him play (some are indeed fun to watch for a while, I genuinely enjoyed it back then).
Fast forward to these last several weeks and I'm thinking...
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My kids, particularly my younger two, are obsessed with video games!!
Babydoll, who is barely five year olds is kicking butt on Zelda Twilight Princess on the wii. Also most recently she has become obsessed with watching Spencer play the new Batman game. He's not even all the way in the door after work and she asks, "Can we play Batman now!?" They actually beat the game yesterday, but now they are playing it again on the harder level. That's right, she sat through the entire game with him!
Sweet Pea, who is nine years old, has had a long-lasting love affair with Viva Pinata. She wakes up in the morning and heads down to the basement to play, and plays again after her homework is done in the afternoon. Not as often really as her younger brother and sister, but she is currently on another viva pinata kick.
Notice how the nine-year-old is playing a game for ages 3+, and the five-year-old is playing a game intended for ages 12+.
And they aren't the only ones. The most video game crazed child in my life is currently Little Man. I have to force him to stop and play with real toys and eat meals or he would just keep on playing his computer games.
He's been playing two games, but his current favorite is a Tonka Construction game.
In this game he is using construction equipment to build skyscrapers, castles, parks, clean up a ski resort after a blizzard or avalanche or something, and something involving a quarry that I've never caught the beginning of to know what it's about.
He and I have both been learning about excavators, front loaders, graders, and other equipment. I particularly enjoy hearing him say, "front loader" and "scoop"... pretty damn cute!
He's a wiz with those computer games, knowing how to navigate all over several of them.
What does it all mean? When I want some peace and quiet, they can play their games and I can catch my breath. When I want to spend time doing other things with them.... I'm in trouble.
Yes they have limits, and yes they must wait to play until after school/preschool activities are completed.